Understanding your drivers

Understanding your drivers

PUT INTO PRACTICE

  • Which driver(s) do you recognise yourself in most?
  • In which situations do they manifest themselves?
  • What are you missing at this moment? What would you have needed?
  • Do you consciously observe the manifestation of these drivers in your interlocutors?
  • Confronting the drivers

Initially, Kahler and Capers saw permissions as a good way to stop the negative manifestation of Drivers. Their research later showed that this method was inappropriate.

According to Kahler, the Perception and the Channel of Communication associated with the observed Driver should be offered - to the other person, or to ourselves, manifesting that Driver, if we can step back from our behaviour.